from Newcomer
(I have) a completely different experience that poses what I feel is an interesting question about human behavior in our society. Hopefully others here will find it interesting as well.
It might be akin to what Becky was referring to in her post #6 above when she says, “To wax philosophical for a moment… our culture has, for the better part of the last half century, bit by bit, instilled in each of us how ’special’ each of us are. Special people needn’t bother with the rest of us. Not only is everyone special, we have also done almost everything we can to avoid explaining how things work in real life. There is no awareness of how each of us fits into the fabric of life - the structure of society.”
My family, like so many others, is having to tighten up the wallet in these tough economic times (not whining, just setting the scene here). About a week ago, a very close relative emailed me a video about a business opportunity. I dragged my feet and didn’t watch it until yesterday when her persistance got the better of me. To me, it sounded like a pyramid sales scheme veiled as a “MLM” (multi level marketing) model. I do not have a business background so I only had a vague idea that such things exist, but did not know particulars. I googled and researched these terms in an attempt to educate myself.
I came upon a very interesting article in which the author first educates the reader as to what these “business models” are and how they work. But at the end of the article, the author discusses how they are illegal and are being allowed to permeate our society anyway from politics to Wall Street, to the average Joe on the street.
Here’s the link to the article if anyone else cares to read it:
http://www.falseprofits.com/MeaningofPyramids.html
Here’s a link to the author’s website also:
http://pyramidschemealert.org/category/news/
So yesterday, as I was settling in back home after being out on a long road trip out of state for a legitimate job interview, this “too good to be true” offer falls squarely into my lap. My relative tells me how she’s making money hand over fist because she got into this early and very near the top of the pyramid. Two men co-founded the MLM in question and my relative is close friends with a friend of theirs so my relative is probably in the second or third tier of the pyramid.
So here I am, minding my p’s and q’s, trying to get a job the old-fashioned way, the kind where I get paid an honest wage for an honest day’s work, and then this whole MLM thing comes out of nowhere and clubs me in the head.
I have decided not to participate.
So the question is, what would you do if you were me? And more for public discussion, what do you think most people in my shoes would do? If you had a chance to get in to a business opportunity early, when there’s still money to be made, but you know it’s probably shady and immoral, do you toss your values and principles aside in favor of keeping a roof over your head? Or do you hold tight to your values, even if it lands you in the poorhouse?
These pyramid schemes, dressed up as legitimate business opportunities (in the form of MLM’s) are becoming mainstream. Yet the only ones who profit are those at the top few tiers and those few profit at the expense of others’ losses. Amway has been cited as one example of this kind of company. Is the founder of Amway the successful business genius he’s purported to be, or is he a carnivorous criminal? What about Usana vitamins? I know someone right here in town who got sucked into selling those and is in debt to the person one tier above her to the tune of $800.00 while the CEO’s sitting pretty.
Our culture has evolved with a “kill or be killed” mentality toward survival. So am I an idiot to take the moral high ground and not jump into this scheme near the top where I can profit off others’ investments? Am I a whimp for not getting into this dog-eat-dog scheme when I’m near-guaranteed to be the predator and not the prey? I hope I’ll at least get brownie points toward Heaven for this!