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April 24th, 2013

Our Experience With Coach Holowaty Was Positive

From John

Eastern Connecticut State University Baseball Coach Bill Holowaty has been the head coach since 1967 – that’s 45 years. His record is 1382 wins, 515 losses, and 6 ties. Most recent years the team has had 25 to 35 wins. Holowaty is recognized nationally as one of the top college baseball coaches for all college divisions. In Mariah’s one year at ECSU ending in the spring of 2007, she was the team ‘manager’ – Holowaty’s assistant. The experience was all positive. The team won New England and went on to the World Series in Minnesota where they crashed and burned. Mariah travelled with the team to California-Arizona for the preseason in early March and then to the World Series in May. This was a great team with respectful players and a coach who expressed his appreciation for Mariah’s special contributions. I went to a lot of games that spring and saw his consistent behavior. Yes, at times he was a bully but a good bully if there can be one (he’s in the news in CT for having been accused of bullying some of his players; he’ll likely retire because of this). In the picture, Mariah is furthest to the left and coach Holowaty is furthest to the right. This was the afternoon they won the New England division III championship. Mariah was standing at the dugout and the guys waved her out to join the team picture. What a team.

April 23rd, 2013

My Daughter Christina Doing an Ad on the Radio

From John

Christina is the one ordering a burger :-)

TTCU-Catchy R60

April 17th, 2013

Six Liter Pressure Cooker

From John

The media is making a big deal about the fact that a six-liter pressure cooker was used to make the two Boston Marathon bombs. They are saying that this indicates “foreign made.” We pulled ours out which we purchased in California 25 years ago, either from Target or Mervyns. We use this about four nights a week to cook veggies. It’s also great for cooking wheat berries that can be mixed with cooked tomatoes. Yummy.

April 13th, 2013

Another 1950s Yankees Fan

From Diane

John’s article brought back warm memories for me. I loved baseball in the 50s and the Yankees were my favorite team too. I played hardball with the boys at recess because the girls weren’t interested. Actually it was one-a-cat (really “one old cat” but what did we know?) because we never had time to get two real teams together. I learned to throw hard by standing in front of a mirror in my bedroom and “practicing” pitching a la Whitey Ford (#16). My hero was Mickey Mantle (#7). As John says, we were kids and had no clue about what went on behind the scenes. We saw the people they were through the eyes of adoring kids, not objectively at all.

The Yankees broadcaster on Channel 11 was Mel Allen (remember the Bert & Harry Piels ads for beer?) and Vin Sculley did the Dodgers on Channel 9. During the summer, I would score ball games on the telly.

The only World Series game I’ve ever been to was in 1956. It was Thursday morning and I had barely gotten to school at Darien Junior High when my mother called the office to say she was coming to get me. She took me straight to the Darien station and put me on a train to New York. My Dad had gotten two last minute tickets for game #2 at Ebbets Field. The Yanks lost. That was the year that Don Larsen (#18) later pitched the only perfect game in World Series history.

Thank you so much for bringing back happy memories of baseball when it was a game and we loved not just “our” team but “our” players too.

April 13th, 2013

My Moment with Jackie Robinson

The movie “42” starring Chadwick Baldwin as Jackie Robinson and Harrison Ford as Branch Rickey, owner of the Brooklyn Dodgers, is a must see for anyone growing up in the 1950s or who loved baseball in that magic era.

From John

I was a huge baseball fan as a kid. I was devoted to the New York Yankees in the 1950s and can still recite the numbers of the starting eight Yankees (not the pitchers). Phil Rizzuto, short-stop (No. 10), was my favorite to the point where I would actually pray for him to get a hit when he came up to bat – he was short like me. Rizzuto was the Most Valuable Player in 1950. In the early-mid 50s, I was also the only kid in the “300 Club” which was named the 300 Club because it was limited to 299 New York City business men and one child (me) centered at the Republican Club located on the same block where my commuting father worked at Schumacher’s next to Bryant Park.

The 300 Club was a gambling club. Every year in April, the members submitted their teams of 10 players with two alternates (if one or two of the first 10 did not come to bat at least 400 times). The trick was to pick a team with the highest combined batting average by the end of the baseball season. It was not as easy as it sounds because every year someone would have an off year or would not come to bat 400 time because of an injury. The pay-off was $50 if you were leading at the all-star break and $500 with a smaller second place prize if you won at the end of the season. So the New York Times sports pages were my bible for that decade. The closest I came to winning was when I came in second at the all-star break one summer.

Because of the club I didn’t just study and choose Yankees (usually Mickey Mantle #7, Hank Bauer #9 and Yogi Berra #8). I knew of all of the top hitters of that decade which included Willie Mays (center field) and Don Mueller (right field) on the NY Giants, Stan Musiel (center field) of the St. Louis Cardinals, and Duke Snider (center field), and Jackie Robinson (third base) on the Brooklyn Dodgers. Good hitters like Roy Campanella (Dodgers), Roger Maris (Yankees and Cardinals) and Hank Aaron (Boston Braves) came in toward the end of this era. I went to quite a few Yankees games with my parents. At my first game, Yankees v. St. Louis Browns, I saw Satchel Paige give up a bases loaded home run to Yogi Berra in the last of the 9th. I never had an opportunity to go to any Dodgers’ games in Brooklyn. Andy Rooney took me to my only NY Giants’ game in their last season at the Polo Grounds in New York before the team moved to San Francisco. We sat in the CBS box and I recall seeing Willie, Bobby Thompson, and Mueller hitting and fielding. In the 80s and early 90s Becki and I with kids rediscovered the Giants and went to many games at Candlestick Park where we were entertained by Will Clark and Matt Williams among others. Remember the earthquake World Series between the Giants and Oakland As?

I have always enjoyed my brushes with fame so when John Sharnik, a CBS producer and author,  asked me to warm up Jackie Robinson for an exhibition at the Rowayton Bayley Beach tennis courts one summer weekend in either 1959 or 1960, I was more than happy to do so. As much as I was a student of baseball I was only faintly aware of the difficulties that Jackie struggled with in the late 40s and 50s. This is because I saw baseball through a kid’s eyes. Only later would I learn to understand the destructiveness of prejudice and hate in our society.

In Rowayton I was considered the best kid tennis player. I would consistantly beat the pro next door at Roton Point, I was number one on the Norwalk High team, went on to play college tennis and ultimately made the all conference team in doubles. But if the truth be known, Mike Newman and Paul Tebo, two other Rowayton kids, were just as good. But I had a lot of important mentors like Ward Chamberlin, best adult player around and George Shiras whose son Lief  became a top grass court player with success at Wimbledon. I would usually be put out of the annual Rowayton Tennis Tournament by Ward and there was always a good gallery. Ward would always make sure that I got more games off of him than the other big hitters in the tournament. I also like to tell people that I beat Paul Gerken from neighboring Norwalk who rose to 32nd in the world beating the likes of  Bjorn Borg and Arther Ashe. Paul has the only winning record over Borg (2-1). This was in the summer of 1961 when we played one set and I won 6-2. I always follow-up and confess that Paul was only 10 years old and I was 18, but Paul was already receiving his rackets from Jack Kramer.

So when Sharnik asked me to warm up Jackie Robinson, I rose to the occasion. I vaguely remember that when I was introduced to Jackie I showed no awe because this was serious business and I sensed that Jackie felt the same way. Since he was quite stoic, I wondered about his interest in being at Bayley Beach where everyone was white except for him. Darien next door was also all white except for the maids that came daily on the bus from Stamford. Jackie and his wife, Rachel, lived in Greenwich between Rye NY and Stamford where my maternal grandfather had built fine homes in the 1920s and early 30s.

I call this “my moment with Jackie Robinson” because it probably lasted 20 to 25 minutes. It was a beautiful warm day and I was hitting with someone I admired as a baseball player. He was at best an above average country club tennis player because of his athleticism. His forehand bounced deep in the court and was heavy to return. Jackie went on to play the exhibition doubles match with Ward and two other Rowayton men. Over those years we also had exhibitions with other top players including Billy Talbert. In my book, Ward was always the star.

After this experience I became more aware of Jackie Robinson’s trials and tribulations and the negative side of baseball in that era. In the 1960s I lost all interest in the major leagues except for the revival that I mentioned in the late 1980s and early 90s. Two things dashed that revival – the baseball strike that ended a superlative season and homerun crown for Matt Williams and the arrival of Barry Bonds in San Fransico. Bonds made even his uncle Willie Mays look bad.

Jackie paved the way for Elston Howard (Catcher, Yankees), Don Newcombe (Pitcher, Dodgers), Roy Campanella (Catcher, Dodgers), Minnie Minoso (perennial 300 hitter, outfield, Chicago White Sox), Monte Irvin (outfield, Cleveland Indians), Roberto Clemente (right field, Pittsburgh Pirates), Willie Stargell (first base, Pittsburgh Pirates), and many others. I lived in Pittsburgh while in Grad School from 1966 to 71 and would often walk from the lab at the medical school about five blocks down to Forbes Field where I was able to enter the stadium for free after the seventh inning (bleachers on the left field foul line cost only 50 cents). Roberto Clemente was the best all-around player I ever saw. He played right field because he had a terrific throwing arm and would occasionally throw out surprised hitters at first base who thought they had hit a single. Stargell was a phenomenal clean-up hitter behind line drive hitter, Clemente, who on numerous occasions would hit the ball over the third tier roof in right field. When that happened, everyone at the KFC up on the hill (the getto) would get free Kentucky Fried Chicken.

Baseball in the 40s and 50s was magical. It’s not the same for me today.

April 7th, 2013

Five California Girls Hanging Out in the Sierra Foothills – Cabin Fever

From John

This was an annual rite when we lived in the Bay Area. The guys stayed home while the women camped in the Sierra’s – Becki, sister Barb, and the Vierra sisters and their traveling companions Henretta, Buster, YamaLama, and some bunnies. Becki and I got married in Carson City (Monday, Feb 29, 1988) and spent the night before at the North Lake Tahoo Hyatt on the California side.

April 7th, 2013

Bungay Fire Brigade Does It Again

From Rich Dempsey

April 1st, 2013

My Most Satisfying April Fools Joke

from John

This was on April 1st 1987. Becki and I had moved into our first house in central Palo Alto. We had only a few pieces of furniture but the winter was warm and we were joined by Becki’s beloved German Shepherd Chewbacka and cockatiel JD. Becki for some reason had concluded that JD was a boy, so we were quite surprised to find a small egg in ‘his’ cage a few days before April. JD’s cage was mounted high on the wall so you had to stand on a stool to see the bottom of the cage. So while Becki was not around on the morning of April 1st, I took a chicken egg out of the fridge and placed it in the bottom of the cage. When Becki came into the living room, I got up on the stool, peered into the cage, and reacted like an academy award winning actor … “my God, JD laid another egg!” Becki rushed over and stood up on the stool to see this new wonder. For a second or two the expression on her face was most gratifying. While I was across the room revelling in laughter, Becki reached into the cage, grabbed the egg, and started chasing me around the house… only then, in the frenzy that ensued, did I learn how successful the prank was. Thinking that the egg was raw, I did my best to avoid the curveball that was thrown which I was able to deflect with a flat hand.

…it was hard-boiled. John

My partner in crime. The bird and I got along quite well.
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(Left to Right) Becki at the Pauling Institute plotting my future a few months earlier. Read the rest of this entry »

March 31st, 2013

Happy Day – Special Easter

From John

Our Mariah’s Zane called me a little before 9 AM today and asked if he could marry Mariah. Without hesitation I told Zane that Becki and I “are thrilled.” He was on his way home from his overnight duty on his submarine, the attack sub USS Albany. He was going to propose to her when he got home. I called Becki who is in Burlingame CA and woke her up to tell her the good news.

Zane’s last deployment began at the end of July and ended on March 8th when the Albany returned to Norfolk (longer than initially planned). It probably took three weeks to get the ring. “Albany steamed more than 40,000 nautical miles during the deployment, which is enough to encircle the Earth, and still make four round trips from Norfolk to San Diego,” said Skipper Soldow. “We were privileged to have visited Lisbon, Portugal; Haakonsvern, Norway; Faslane, Scotland; and Rota, Spain.” This is the Albany at dock.

Zane hails from Burnet Texas.

March 29th, 2013

Nothing Like Going Back Home

From John

Becki grew up in Burlingame California just about 20 minutes south of San Francisco. She flew there on Wednesday to find Spring and will spend Easter Weekend with her entire family and our friends in Palo Alto for two more weeks. She landed in high 60 degree weather and this orange tree next to her family house where I picked her up on our first date to see “Aliens.” The next morning she took her younger brother, Rob, for pancakes on his birthday. Her mom’s birthday is this coming week.

Here is Becki square dancing in her youth (furthest to the left). The second picture down, Becki makes the local news back in 1973. And here she is at her mothers graduation from San Francisco State with a teaching degree with her brothers and sister. Rob is the kid showing two fingers. Younger sister Barb held the discus record in Northern California for three decades up until a few years ago. She was a hell of a softball player also. Then there is Jim (tallest) who takes care of Larry Ellison’s planes, helocopters and cars, Dave who is a carpenter, and Tom (smallest) who is a mechanical engineer.

March 23rd, 2013

This Story Represents My Sole Experience with Guns

From John

One of my earliest memories was when I was living on Harstrom Place in Rowayton CT next to the Hartogs before the age of five. I can recall entering the Hartogs’ house through the front door and seeing Mr. Hartog lounging in front of the TV watching 1940s cowboy movies in black and white, of course. There was a lot of galloping around and dramatic music to go with the scenery to heighten the drama of the chase.

When I moved to Bryan Road at the age of five or six I became Hopalong Cassidy. As shown below, I had only one set of clothes in those days. The first two picts show me with brother, Peter, at the age of one and sister Phoebe at two and a half – so this would be the summer of 1951. I was in a testy mood that day because I had rustlers to chase. The third picture shows that I caught some and tied them to the tree in my front yard. Maybe that’s Chris Henry from down the street. And that’s my sister, Phoebe, too tied to the same tree. Then, I got on my horse Sparta to chase some more. My Hoppy outfit must have been stuck to my skin by then.

The last picture is me today still wearing my Hoppy outfit. People at work kid me about it but I don’t mind because they don’t go too far. They know that I have little patience and my six-guns are loaded.

See me here on the big screen.

February 3rd, 2013

Prospects for Conversation at the Cafe

From LibDem

How about we try a different approach toward instigating conversation on the cafe?  Perhaps post an issue and discuss.  Here are two

A. Bipartisan Framework for Comprehensive Immigration Reform:

1.  Pathway to Citizenship
2.  Reform Legal Immigration System
3.  Create an Effective Employment 
    Verification System
4.  Establish a Better Process for Admitting
    Future Workers.

What do Cafers think about this?  Is it a “go” or will it be tangled in typical DC gridlock.  Discuss.

Next Issue.

B. A new study from the Veterans Administration shows that 22 soldiers committed suicide daily in 2010.  This is a 10% increase since 1999.  Overall suicide rate in America has increased by 31%. 

Why do you think this is happening and what can we do to prevent this?  Discuss.

Post each issue individually and see what happens!

November 28th, 2012

The Cafe Deference

From John

If you read the statements of Newcomer, Kevin, Marylou, Diane, Justthisrepulican, JTO, Libdem, non-woodstocker, FaS, Steve Adams, and others – they are powerful statements worth reading by all including our international visitors. Don’t underestimate the power of speaking up!

October 29th, 2012

Storm Update from CL&P (14:25 – Oct. 29, 2012)

With the hurricane-like weather currently hitting our area, our electric system is taking on damage leaving some of our customers without service. Right now, we are responding to emergency situations and assessing system damage. Our own employees, in addition to contractor crews, are ready to respond once it is safe to do so.

The weather forecast calls for sustained strong winds for many more hours. Because of this, we expect that our system will continue to take on more damage resulting in additional outages. CL&P is warning customers that service may not return for an extended period of time.

If you experience an outage, please call 800-286-2000 or go to www.cl-p.com (via PC or mobile device) to report it. It’s important that you report an outage even if you think your neighbors may have already reported it. The more information we have, the better we are able to improve our assessment of damage and make repairs. Read the rest of this entry »

October 5th, 2012

Where We Were at the Cafe on July 18, 2006

October 1 was the Cafe’s 7th birthday. From the start and throughout 2006 no one in Woodstock knew the source of the Cafe. We were anonymous.

Why is anonymity offered at this site? Perhaps one minor answer is that we are not a national blog although occasionally we have visitors from other states and countries. The commentary at this site is focused exclusively on Woodstock CT in areas that are important to all who live in this small town such as:

  • The education system which is 74% of the Town budget,
  • Town management,
  • Town politics,
  • State politics as it relates to the Town,
  • Neighboring town issues as they relate to Woodstock,
  • Local environmental issues,
  • Local cultural issues,
  • Local social issues,
  • Local economic issues, and
  • Local lifestyle issues, etc.

It is the perception of many who have spoken here and in the Villager (some anonymously) that for many years our Town has been mis-managed and exploited by sub-par leadership with special agendas or short-sighted and even incompetent leaders that simply have not operated in the best interests of the community. When I moved to Woodstock, the sore point of the period in Town was disbelief by some in the failure of the Town leaders to purchase the Data General Property that could have been converted to a high school or rented to businesses to generate income for Woodstock. This property was subsequently ‘stolen’ by Hyde School, a nonprofit that pays no taxes. I was then exposed to the charming and personable Selectmanship of Mr. Ed Newman and then the rebellion of Town citizenry over the way in which the school system was run. Next we had the angry campaign of Ernest Wetzel that educated me with a lot of half-truths and mis-information. The chaos and complaints over Town management continued under the leadership of Republican Delpha Very, a disciple of Mr. Newman. Ms. Very’s tenure as First Selectman was abruptly followed by unanimous defeat of the Republicans by ‘new’ Democrats last fall. Through all of this my Woodstock associates and I felt that we lived in complete political darkness – even those of us who joined either the Republican or Democratic Town Committees and attended Town meetings. Nevertheless, we have cared about the Town and want to make Woodstock our home for the rest of our lives. This is perhaps the answer to the question initially posed. Read the rest of this entry »

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